Safe Dating – Online & Off!

For millions of individuals seeking online romance and special connections, the key to safe dating is safeguarding personal information from strangers who might have other ideas.

• If you are using online dating websites, set up a free web-based e-mail account, such as Yahoo or Hotmail, to keep your dating life and your personal life separate. Avoid using personal information in your profile, such as your birth date, when setting up your e-mail address, and be sure your outgoing name only contains your first name or an alias.
• Phone numbers are gateways to your personal identity. Be very careful when you give it out !
• Tell a friend or family member where you are going and who you are meeting. Knowing that your friends and family have a way of finding you will give everyone peace of mind and make you feel more at ease meeting your new acquaintance.
• Meet in a public place, not your apartment, and keep it short. A quick coffee at a popular café will allow you both to get a feel for if you want to meet again.
• Stick to plan. Be wary of any last minute changes, such as an invitation to get picked up at home, or a change of venue.
• Know your limits. If drinking alcohol is part of your date, then drink in moderation. Tip: Sit away from the bar and walk over to the bar and order drinks directly from the bartender. Standing and walking helps you feel how much you've drunk.
• Have an exit strategy. Informing your date beforehand that you have to be elsewhere at a certain time gives you an excellent reason to leave should the meeting turn sour.